Camaraderie is what has brought human beings together for centuries. I believe friendship is the amiable, chirpy and chummy phase of life. It is a complicated mixture of bittersweet times, bliss, felicity, and sometimes we have the lowest point when there is a misunderstanding and times turn blue. However, according to me, friendship is an immutable relationship which can hamper at times, but stays incorrigible and clings to us for good.
Friends are our confidants; they stay by our side when we fall, and help pick ourselves up for a new start. Somehow we can never give up our friends, and someday, if our friends make a mistake, we should aid them in understanding about the predicament ahead. Friendship sugar-coated and made palatable is always superficial, and in real friendship, love should overflow from our hearts for our friends. My mother always tells me- “Camaraderie should always be a spontaneous reaction”, that is, it should be a sort of a reflex action, something which one should do inadvertently. But as Mahatma Gandhi said – “Don't let people with dirty legs crawl into your mind”, it requires wisdom to be away from immorality and iniquity. One should distance oneself from the people one can sense are not right and not lose our morality and virtue in the process. There are innumerable examples to prove this, and this blunder was made by Gandhi Ji himself. But the big part about making mistakes is to accept your guilt and learn to never iterate it because making mistakes is alright. I believe that one should love the people who are passionate and compassionate towards one and reciprocate that affection always. If your comrade makes a mistake and has his lowest point, you should help him pick himself up, as this proverb says – “Why do we fall? We fall so that we can learn to pick ourselves up”. Friendship is merely this clichéd proverb – “A friend in need is a friend indeed”.
Friends are our confidants; they stay by our side when we fall, and help pick ourselves up for a new start. Somehow we can never give up our friends, and someday, if our friends make a mistake, we should aid them in understanding about the predicament ahead. Friendship sugar-coated and made palatable is always superficial, and in real friendship, love should overflow from our hearts for our friends. My mother always tells me- “Camaraderie should always be a spontaneous reaction”, that is, it should be a sort of a reflex action, something which one should do inadvertently. But as Mahatma Gandhi said – “Don't let people with dirty legs crawl into your mind”, it requires wisdom to be away from immorality and iniquity. One should distance oneself from the people one can sense are not right and not lose our morality and virtue in the process. There are innumerable examples to prove this, and this blunder was made by Gandhi Ji himself. But the big part about making mistakes is to accept your guilt and learn to never iterate it because making mistakes is alright. I believe that one should love the people who are passionate and compassionate towards one and reciprocate that affection always. If your comrade makes a mistake and has his lowest point, you should help him pick himself up, as this proverb says – “Why do we fall? We fall so that we can learn to pick ourselves up”. Friendship is merely this clichéd proverb – “A friend in need is a friend indeed”.
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